Friday, July 9, 2010

Remember the best way to win in a conflict is to avoid confilct.

When you know what somebody says is wrong, don't go correcting them because you would get into a quarrel. Instead, agree with that person. Then you don't have to go through unnecessary conflict. Remember, always avoid conflict. Only then you, and the people all around you would feel happy.

Always make others feel that they're important.

Everybody has their self-esteem. Try to compliment others about anything good about them, and I tell you, the results may be better than you think. Remember, during a conversation, always throw in a compliment or two, that will make others start to like you.

Always put a smile on your face.

Smile, it is the simplest way to let others like you. Smiles are extremely contagious. If you smile frequently, eventually everyone around you would smile, and if you smile, you will feel happy, and therefore you make others happy too. And if they're happy when you're around, surely they would start to like you more.

If you want people to like you, you have to like them.

The point is that, if you sincerely like other people, they would definitely like you back. Sincerely be interested in others, make them feel like you are a person that is really interested in them and really likes them, surely they would like you back.